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CHILDREN HAND WRITTING
This months I have gotten more emails than ever before. Thanks, requests and questions all poured in. I am so thankful for all emails.
The new projects are coming along. Hopefully I will be able to tell you about the completion very soon. I have gotten emails requesting information about the new book "Hypnotic Parenting" as well as the math program. I don't have an estimate for completion yet, but working diligently. Both products will be loaded with great information and help you achieve spectacular results with your children.
This time I have an article about children's handwriting and how handwriting analysis can help you in your parenting and in helping your child achieve maximum potential. I hope you can make good use of the information.
OK, I hope you'll find this newsletter helpful, and please feel free to send your comments, feedback or questions to Esther@all-gifted-children.com.
To your child's genius!
Esther Andrews
http://www.all-gifted-children.com
How to Analyze Your Child's Handwriting
Graphology. Grapho-therapy. How can it help me? Why should I be interested? Who cares about it?
You! Me! Everybody who has kids or works with kids should be interested. Graphology and Grapho-therapy are such great tools that allow us to take a peek into our children development.
When my daughter was in 2nd grade, we have switched schools. I wasn't happy with the private school she was going to, and visited our local public school , to meet with the principal.
It was a very experienced educator, who has taken the time to meet with us, address our concerns, answer all of our questions, and talk with Tammy, in order to make her comfortable about studying at this school. I have really enjoyed our conversation.
After talking for a while, the principal said to me: "Your daughter seems to be a very precautious girl. I am sure that she will do well at our school, but let me look at her handwriting, and I will tell you what I can see". I was shocked and pleasantly surprised. I have studied Graphology since I was a young child. I have read every book I could get, and always looked at the handwriting of every person around me, to analyze it and gain experience. I have developed good understanding of handwriting analysis. But here was an experienced school principal and he is using Graphology to predict the level of success of my daughter in school.
The principal gave me an accurate assessment of my daughter and predicted her success at the new school.
How is this information useful to you, how does this pertain to your child? First of all some general information: Your child learns how to write, and the first year or two thereafter are dedicated to the mechanics of writing. The child then simply imitates the letters he is taught to write. At this time, your child's skill level and personality are not clearly reflected in his handwriting. As your child's handwriting becomes more and more unique, it is easier to analyze, and it also is evidence that your child is developing his own personality and his own skills.
Usually, when we look at young children's handwriting, we are impressed with their penmanship, if it is as close as possible to the standard writing they learn in school. The opposite is true: a handwriting reflected maturity and a well developed character when the handwriting is unique and does not look identically to the standard.
When you are looking at your child's handwriting, and look for evidence that your child is developing well - look for firmness and even stroke.
Here is an example of a handwriting of an 8 year old girl. It shows normal, healthy development. This handwriting is well organized, well proportioned, which again shows intelligence and normal development.
The small letter t is very telling. It can provide lots of information about your child. There are many variations possible with the letter t. The way the writer starts the letter, the stem, the bar on the stem, all provide important information about the writer.
A very tall stem ( as in the first t in the first row) shows very strong self confidence. Confidence is a big issue in kids, and a very important personality trait. We all want our children to be confident. However, when the t stems are much taller than the rest of the letters, it might show over self confidence, or arrogance. In this case, as a parent, you will have to be careful as to not encourage arrogance.
A very short t in relations to the rest of the writing, as in the second line, shows an independent thinker. He also has strong confidence, and does not need to impress others by his skills, because he is confident and does not need approval as much as others. This child is independent and takes responsibility for his actions. These children are often leaders.
By the way, in order to verify your analysis, look at the stem of the letter d too. If the d stems are consistent with the t stems, you can be quite sure of your analysis.
Here is another interesting example. The t stems are looped, and the size of the loop is significant. This shows sensitivity. This child gets hurt easily, even when there is no intension to hurt him. As a parent you can then help your child see things in perspective, and prevent unnecessary heartache. You can also make sure to work on confidence and self esteem with your child.
One very interesting fact about graphology is the fact that if a person changes his handwriting, it will change his personality. We call this Grapho-therapy. Of course, a person cannot change his handwriting and expect his whole personality to suddenly change. It would take a long time under the supervision of an expert. However, there is one trait in your child that you can safely work on, that will show great results. Self reliance and confidence.
From my point of view, this is great news! It is a tool we can use for the benefit of our children. A tool that is free, effective and we can turn it into fun. If your child is shy, and not very sure of himself, here is what you can do: have your child write a text (make it a fun text, out of a book he likes). Ask him to cross the t bars heavily, and at the end sign his name and make two or three heavy cross bars under his signature.
Have your child practice writing one sentence 30 times a day, preferably in the evening, before he goes to sleep. After a week, you can expect to see significant results.
I know that asking a child to do this exercise 30 times a day is not realistic. It sounds like a punishment! So you will have to turn it into a fun project. If your child likes arts and crafts, you can work on a beautiful wall hanging with 30 inspiring sentences written on it in the specific way, and then decorate it together. Make sure to frame and hang these art masterpieces on the refrigerator or on the wall, to display them. You can choose inspiring text from an inspiring book, you can actually have affirmations written that would support your child's self esteem, for example:
"I am strong and fast. I always succeed at everything I do. I love people and they love me. I am smart and learn fast"... you get the idea. Make sure to write the affirmation in present tense.
You can also turn it into a game, and take turns writing the text competing on how heavy the t bars are, or how many cross bars are there under the signature. You can compete on who writes the sentence more times. Make sure your child wins and praise him enthusiastically.
Last recommendation: have your child practice using both hands in writing. This activity develops both hemispheres of the brain and has shown to be beneficial for development.
I hope this basic information about Graphology and Grapho-therapy will be helpful to you. With questions, don't hesitate to email to me.
To your child's genius!
The new projects are coming along. Hopefully I will be able to tell you about the completion very soon. I have gotten emails requesting information about the new book "Hypnotic Parenting" as well as the math program. I don't have an estimate for completion yet, but working diligently. Both products will be loaded with great information and help you achieve spectacular results with your children.
This time I have an article about children's handwriting and how handwriting analysis can help you in your parenting and in helping your child achieve maximum potential. I hope you can make good use of the information.
OK, I hope you'll find this newsletter helpful, and please feel free to send your comments, feedback or questions to Esther@all-gifted-children.com.
To your child's genius!
Esther Andrews
http://www.all-gifted-children.com
How to Analyze Your Child's Handwriting
Graphology. Grapho-therapy. How can it help me? Why should I be interested? Who cares about it?
You! Me! Everybody who has kids or works with kids should be interested. Graphology and Grapho-therapy are such great tools that allow us to take a peek into our children development.
When my daughter was in 2nd grade, we have switched schools. I wasn't happy with the private school she was going to, and visited our local public school , to meet with the principal.
It was a very experienced educator, who has taken the time to meet with us, address our concerns, answer all of our questions, and talk with Tammy, in order to make her comfortable about studying at this school. I have really enjoyed our conversation.
After talking for a while, the principal said to me: "Your daughter seems to be a very precautious girl. I am sure that she will do well at our school, but let me look at her handwriting, and I will tell you what I can see". I was shocked and pleasantly surprised. I have studied Graphology since I was a young child. I have read every book I could get, and always looked at the handwriting of every person around me, to analyze it and gain experience. I have developed good understanding of handwriting analysis. But here was an experienced school principal and he is using Graphology to predict the level of success of my daughter in school.
The principal gave me an accurate assessment of my daughter and predicted her success at the new school.
How is this information useful to you, how does this pertain to your child? First of all some general information: Your child learns how to write, and the first year or two thereafter are dedicated to the mechanics of writing. The child then simply imitates the letters he is taught to write. At this time, your child's skill level and personality are not clearly reflected in his handwriting. As your child's handwriting becomes more and more unique, it is easier to analyze, and it also is evidence that your child is developing his own personality and his own skills.
Usually, when we look at young children's handwriting, we are impressed with their penmanship, if it is as close as possible to the standard writing they learn in school. The opposite is true: a handwriting reflected maturity and a well developed character when the handwriting is unique and does not look identically to the standard.
When you are looking at your child's handwriting, and look for evidence that your child is developing well - look for firmness and even stroke.
Here is an example of a handwriting of an 8 year old girl. It shows normal, healthy development. This handwriting is well organized, well proportioned, which again shows intelligence and normal development.
The small letter t is very telling. It can provide lots of information about your child. There are many variations possible with the letter t. The way the writer starts the letter, the stem, the bar on the stem, all provide important information about the writer.
A very tall stem ( as in the first t in the first row) shows very strong self confidence. Confidence is a big issue in kids, and a very important personality trait. We all want our children to be confident. However, when the t stems are much taller than the rest of the letters, it might show over self confidence, or arrogance. In this case, as a parent, you will have to be careful as to not encourage arrogance.
A very short t in relations to the rest of the writing, as in the second line, shows an independent thinker. He also has strong confidence, and does not need to impress others by his skills, because he is confident and does not need approval as much as others. This child is independent and takes responsibility for his actions. These children are often leaders.
By the way, in order to verify your analysis, look at the stem of the letter d too. If the d stems are consistent with the t stems, you can be quite sure of your analysis.
Here is another interesting example. The t stems are looped, and the size of the loop is significant. This shows sensitivity. This child gets hurt easily, even when there is no intension to hurt him. As a parent you can then help your child see things in perspective, and prevent unnecessary heartache. You can also make sure to work on confidence and self esteem with your child.
One very interesting fact about graphology is the fact that if a person changes his handwriting, it will change his personality. We call this Grapho-therapy. Of course, a person cannot change his handwriting and expect his whole personality to suddenly change. It would take a long time under the supervision of an expert. However, there is one trait in your child that you can safely work on, that will show great results. Self reliance and confidence.
From my point of view, this is great news! It is a tool we can use for the benefit of our children. A tool that is free, effective and we can turn it into fun. If your child is shy, and not very sure of himself, here is what you can do: have your child write a text (make it a fun text, out of a book he likes). Ask him to cross the t bars heavily, and at the end sign his name and make two or three heavy cross bars under his signature.
Have your child practice writing one sentence 30 times a day, preferably in the evening, before he goes to sleep. After a week, you can expect to see significant results.
I know that asking a child to do this exercise 30 times a day is not realistic. It sounds like a punishment! So you will have to turn it into a fun project. If your child likes arts and crafts, you can work on a beautiful wall hanging with 30 inspiring sentences written on it in the specific way, and then decorate it together. Make sure to frame and hang these art masterpieces on the refrigerator or on the wall, to display them. You can choose inspiring text from an inspiring book, you can actually have affirmations written that would support your child's self esteem, for example:
"I am strong and fast. I always succeed at everything I do. I love people and they love me. I am smart and learn fast"... you get the idea. Make sure to write the affirmation in present tense.
You can also turn it into a game, and take turns writing the text competing on how heavy the t bars are, or how many cross bars are there under the signature. You can compete on who writes the sentence more times. Make sure your child wins and praise him enthusiastically.
Last recommendation: have your child practice using both hands in writing. This activity develops both hemispheres of the brain and has shown to be beneficial for development.
I hope this basic information about Graphology and Grapho-therapy will be helpful to you. With questions, don't hesitate to email to me.
To your child's genius!
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Monday, September 1, 2008
Protecting baby's world in more ways than one.
Going Green 101: Is Green Your Family Color?
Going green is ultra hip these days. But if you've ever wondered what it really means to go green, or what's behind those “eco-friendly,” “organic” and “environmentally conscious” buzz words, or why parents everywhere (celebrities, included) are going gaga for green baby products, you've come to the right place. We will cut through the clutter and help you navigate the sometimes bumpy road towards more natural living.
More than a color
Going green is about making conscious decisions about how you live. It's about choosing a lifestyle that fits your own, unique family and reflects responsibility for the world around us. It means making informed decisions and thinking about the impact those decisions make on future generations. It means asking questions about the products we buy and recognizing how those products, from start-to-finish, may impact our environment or our children's health. Going green is about becoming mindful and sensitive about the choices you ultimately make.
Doing a little something extra
You don’t have to wear Birkenstocks, know how to do a downward facing dog yoga pose, or even sell the SUV that's already parked in your driveway to make a meaningful difference. You can take baby steps. Whether you choose to recycle old catalogs so they don't wind up in landfills, buy products derived from renewable resources or limit your baby’s exposure to household toxins, your decisions add up to positive impacts on the world around us.
Going Green 101: Is Green Your Family Color?
Going green is ultra hip these days. But if you've ever wondered what it really means to go green, or what's behind those “eco-friendly,” “organic” and “environmentally conscious” buzz words, or why parents everywhere (celebrities, included) are going gaga for green baby products, you've come to the right place. We will cut through the clutter and help you navigate the sometimes bumpy road towards more natural living.
More than a color
Going green is about making conscious decisions about how you live. It's about choosing a lifestyle that fits your own, unique family and reflects responsibility for the world around us. It means making informed decisions and thinking about the impact those decisions make on future generations. It means asking questions about the products we buy and recognizing how those products, from start-to-finish, may impact our environment or our children's health. Going green is about becoming mindful and sensitive about the choices you ultimately make.
Doing a little something extra
You don’t have to wear Birkenstocks, know how to do a downward facing dog yoga pose, or even sell the SUV that's already parked in your driveway to make a meaningful difference. You can take baby steps. Whether you choose to recycle old catalogs so they don't wind up in landfills, buy products derived from renewable resources or limit your baby’s exposure to household toxins, your decisions add up to positive impacts on the world around us.
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